| Life After Death: I Sense Him Near - But How Do I Know? |
| Written by Afterlife Phil G | |
| Saturday, 04 July 2009 | |
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Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag. Lisa from the UK, asks: I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can't actually "connect" with him..."
Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag. Lisa from the UK, asks: I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can't actually "connect" with him..." "In answer, can I say that belief in being able to connect with the afterlife doesn't always translate to being able to connect clearly, especially if it's someone very close to you - the problem is how to verify it when you already know so much." I had the same problem (visitors to my website on contacting the afterlife will know my discovery was accidental, back in 2002) and it's why I developed my simple technique. Firstly, if you sense him around, then he's there. I know some would think that's a nave statement, but it's true and you can verify it yourself in time. We need to move onto how to clarify things. Specifically there are a few tools I make available to help on my website on contacting the afterlife. Can I run through those first. Connecting is about being relaxed, to the point you're not controlling your own thoughts - like a deep meditation phase where your body goes to jelly - accepting anything that comes through, and then verifying it, step by step, until it becomes easier. On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide "Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself", any meditation will do. In order to get clear detail or feeling is to make a difference between the thoughts in your head, and the thoughts being PLACED in your head. One key is to not ask for or expect specific thoughts, or 'signs', but to accept whatever comes through (or not). Maybe you won't get what you're expecting, but slowly, you will clearly get things. And it gets easier the more you do this. The next problem of getting clear information or feelings is to separate your thoughts from those you are receiving outside of you. But I find if you're relaxed, not trying to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through, it's easier. You may not get what you want right now, but you'll get things, and it gets easier. Lastly, you want to verify what just happened is not your own thoughts, and my suggestion is to ask for something you don't know, or something you're forgotten. Something you don't know can be anything. In my wife's case, the final 'proof' she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was for me to ask if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils off her desk today? Something I didn't know, and did not even know about the cylinder. In my book 'Soul Matters - you can talk with those you miss' I talk about my Nanna coming through one evening. (She passed away when I was about 7) She showed me a scone on a plate. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her voice say "don't you remember the scones?" - then I remembered. I had asked my mum over and over to make scones like my Nanna (The British make scones much better than Aussies do!) I had completely forgotten that. So ask those two questions, and trust whatever is brought through will make sense, and verify your connection. You see, it's not so much as you need to know HOW to connect, but how to clarify what you're getting, and although the steps I've listed do both, in your case, concentrate on those little differences between just 'feeling he's near' and 'asking for verification'. I hope this helps you gain clarification. If you follow those steps, and talk a look at those points on the website (philg.net.au) I'm sure you'll get the response you need to clarify and verify contact with your father in the Afterlife. Cheers, Phil G The Article Author: Lost someone? Family who have passed away are still with you. Afterlife Phil G shares his views on Life After Death and on Contacting the Afterlife, giving hope to ordinary people around the world. |
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