| "Stephen Richards Shows You How To Get What You Want In Life |
| Written by Stephen Richards | |
| Saturday, 05 December 2009 | |
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Self-doubt is one of the main reasons why people fail to manifest what they desire out of life. There is no other way around it than to go forward, you have to face your doubt head on in order to overcome it. Self-belief can be instilled, although it is what we were born with. Over the years self-doubt sets in and then we have fear of failure taking control. So naturally this is the first step in getting what you want, be self-assured, but not pushy. Become too pushy and you will find yourself filling up with over-confidence, and that is as bas as self-doubt. Once you have found the confidence to tackle new things in life then this is the time you should focus in on your desire, ask specifically that this desire be manifested.
Self-doubt is one of the main reasons why people fail to manifest what they desire out of life. There is no other way around it than to go forward, you have to face your doubt head on in order to overcome it. Self-belief can be instilled, although it is what we were born with. Over the years self-doubt sets in and then we have fear of failure taking control. So naturally this is the first step in getting what you want, be self-assured, but not pushy. Become too pushy and you will find yourself filling up with over-confidence, and that is as bas as self-doubt. Once you have found the confidence to tackle new things in life then this is the time you should focus in on your desire, ask specifically that this desire be manifested. When you desire something then go for it! Worry about how you will cope with the success of having it afterwards. Once you have got what you want then move on to the next thing, this way you will not have time to dwell on things. The minute you stop to overly think and have 'mind chatter' is the time you may well be putting stumbling blocks in your way. Stay focused on your goal, then the next goal and so on. Stop harbouring grudges against those who have wronged you, it just holds you back when you really want to be in the NOW. Learn to forgive others so that you can release yourself from being held captive by the very negative thoughts around you. You are not forgiving others just for the sake of it; you are forgiving them so you can set yourself free. Have you noticed how some people are successful without even trying; they seem to glide through life. What is their secret? Simple! They are focused! This is what you must do if you want what you desire. Do not waste your time on the detail of it, just go for it BIG time. Successful people have the ability to change direction without any warning. Adopt this methodology and become flexible to life around you so that you can become a winner. This is what sets winners apart from losers. Never be afraid to accept a helping hand if someone offers it, no matter how old or young that hand might be. Another secret of success is the ability to delegate tasks, so don't try to do everything yourself, well not all at once. From your vantage point of having delegated the lesser and more menial tasks you will be able to maintain control while doing the more important jobs. Also, never allow a failure to get in your way. Use that failure as an example of how not to do something. That way you will be well able to adapt in the future. Accept the encouragement and support of those around you, and always be thankful of it. There are those with negative minds that may well seek to discourage you, these are not supportive people, avoid them as they are dead weight. Words of praise are empowering, accept them with gratitude. However, negative words and thoughts from others is a form of dominance, never allow this to spoil what you want to achieve. Instead of standing around listening to the negative talk of others and allowing this to put you off doing what you wanted to do, just do it. If you are not there to hear negative talk then you will never know about it. Feel worthy of your desires, tell yourself you deserve to be successful and that you are successful. So long as you are healthy then you have the ability to succeed, be thankful for that. Anything good that comes along should be accepted with praise. Stop being selfish with praise towards yourself and others, if you can't say anything good then don't say anything bad. Give what you can when you can, even if it is simply holding a door open for someone, see how good it makes you feel. Random acts of kindness should be given from the heart, you cannot plan for them. When you think about what you desire then feel comfortable with getting whatever it is. If it's a new car you desire then feel you deserve it, think of yourself driving it, and see yourself in it and how your friends admire you for that. Be unselfish with yourself and those around you, give of your time and of yourself whenever you can, as this is the law of tenfold return. Accept praise for what you do for others and see how good it makes you feel to be in demand. Others will see you in a new light and want to have some of that pizzazz you have, set the stakes high and always seek to attain them. When you give to others then do it because it makes you feel good, do not do it begrudgingly or it will only come back at you in a negative way. When you are striving to achieve success you may come across people who sap your energy reserves. You become tired and drained. These energy sapping vampires can drain you of your resolve, you find their company to be tiring and you just don't seem to be able to get along with them no matter how hard you try. How can you stop them feeding off you? Simple! Avoid them. They see you as food for their own inadequacies; do not give them the power they seek. Stay in a high vibrational state and they will soon get the message when you no longer spend time in their company or refuse to be drawn in to their talk or questions. Spend time with like minded people, you will find you succeed even more at what you want to have happen. A group's dynamic is more powerful than that of an individual. The power created is in the unity and it has to do with attitude. However if you sense bad vibes within such a group then you may have a wolf in sheep's clothing amidst them, so do be careful. Learn, also, to give yourself some 'me' time, this is when you can go into yourself and find some valuable answers that you were not able to do when doing the everyday chores of life. This is when you can reinforce your desires and instil a more positive outlook into your life. Remember the song about smiling, well that is true ... the whole world smiles with you. Your smile is an outward sign that you are a happy person, and successful people smile, they do not have worry etched across their faces. Try it, smile at a stranger and see what happens, of course be sure to do it in the right environment. When you get a smile in return it is making you feel good and adds to your depth of energy reserves. So go around and collect smiles and charge your tank to overflowing with energy. You will find you become more popular and soon you will attract luck in whatever you do. With all of hat I have revealed to you I hope you can now put it into action and make it work for you, in fact I know this is your first real step towards success. Go for it in a BIG way. The Article Author: If you want more in-depth coaching on how to be a success then see the book "Cosmic Ordering: You Can Be Successful" by bestselling global writer Stephen Richards. |
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