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Written by Kimberley P Benson   
Thursday, 14 October 2010
Cataloging men have always remained a mystery to women. Gals around the world cannot even make out if they are in relation or not. What really drives women mad is what guys want. If you are one of them then you are in the right place.
by KimberleyPBenson


Cataloging men have always remained a mystery to women. Gals around the world cannot even make out if they are in relation or not. What really drives women mad is what guys want. If you are one of them then you are in the right place.

Guys are uncomplicated but they do not seem that way. While their demeanor on a whole might be repulsive to the women they are not in a relationship with, the truth is that those women do not count. What really matters to him is your opinion and how you value his! What guys want is simply basic stuff and if you understand them, then you too will be thinking to yourself, Can it be that easy! But, believe me, it is that simple.

Now, I know that a lot of women out there would be thinking, Come on! This cannot be real. Oh, but it is dear. Well, actually, it depends on how you want to look at it. You see, what guys want, is independence, and it is not all about doing your stuff or climbing up the career graph only. No, independence is all about the feeling of having your own life, interests, hobbies, etc. Every male adult has this commonality that he shares with himself.

Obsessive care that you bestow on your guy seems delightful in the beginning, but as time goes on this begins to anger men. If you do not have a life of your own then, they will always feel that you are not giving them their freedom. What they want to have is space, and you should give it to them. Therefore, you should start a hobby and keep yourself busy. Then you will find a difference in his attitude to wards you.

Men gaze at hot sexy gals. However, the story is not what it seems. They do not want some overdone painted personality. They want women who know how to look attractive and know how to take care of their glamor without making themselves look like painted dolls. They prefer a girl, who, with optimum makeup, will project her allure.

Sure, there will be certain exceptions everywhere, but the truth about what guys want, is for their gals to look good and be themselves. In other words, they are still enamored of the girl they fell for in the first place, and therefore, cannot identify with you when you try very hard to please them by using an overdose of makeup to look like somebody else. .

Sometimes, you may be misled to believe that your man likes somebody else because she does certain things in a definite way. However, this can be a very silly thought in itself. You will have to believe that your boyfriend or husband is into you because of the values that you represented at the time of your first meeting, and if there is any problem, it is probably because you deviated drastically from it.

Changes are some things that men cannot take in. It is the woman who loves a change. Men always talk about change, but change is not something that they carry out in terms of their values and beliefs.

Therefore, what guys want, is the assurance that you will be you, the woman whom they fell in love with, and not become like some random gal you see your man talking to on the street.

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