| You Will Find Happiness By Using Three Secrets |
| Written by Fred Freddman | |
| Saturday, 24 October 2009 | |
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Believe it or not there are only 3 Secrets to a Happier Life. These secrets are powerful, universal and absolutely necessary if you are to live happily. Secret #1 - Know Yourself, Secret #2 - Love Yourself, Secret #3 - Be Kind to Others. This may sound overly simplified but lets explore what it really means.
Believe it or not there are only 3 Secrets to a Happier Life. These secrets are powerful, universal and absolutely necessary if you are to live happily. Secret #1 - Know Yourself, Secret #2 - Love Yourself, Secret #3 - Be Kind to Others. This may sound overly simplified but lets explore what it really means. #1 - Finding yourself is not easy for most people. That's because society has conspired to hide you from yourself from the day you were born. This conspiracy is not evil -- the intention was good -- but still our society generally believes it's necessary to protect us from ourselves. So instead we are told to be like others or to behave like some ideal held up to us as the correct model for living. But in reality you are your own ideal, you only need to discover who that person is. You are a unique individual with special talents and desires all your own. To find that person you need to uncover your long buried (perhaps never seen) passions. That's right, your passions. These are the people, places and things that you are deeply attracted to in life. Look for your passions and you will find yourself. Most of us aren't really in touch with our passion because we have been trained not to be. But trust me, they are within you and just below the surface. The things that attract you or that make you curious are your keys. Pursue your interests, your curiosity and your attractions. Eventually you will discover who you really are. #2 - After you discover who you are, you need to learn to love that person. The only way you can do that is by accepting and appreciating your uniqueness and your special gifts. We all have these gifts and it is up to each of us to treasure them. Never sell yourself short, no matter what others may think or say. When it comes to yourself, only you have the opinion that counts. And that opinion must always be in favor of you. You must recognize your worth and realize your value. You are special and worthy and you should never let anyone persuade you otherwise. #3 - Love Others. Just as you cannot be bad, so others cannot be bad. We're all in this life together doing our best. We all make mistakes and that's the way we learn. We all may follow the wrong path for a while until we realize there is a better way. If you see the good in yourself you will see the good in others and vice-versa. In fact, the people around you are really just a reflection of yourself. You are always sending out signals and attracting precisely those people and circumstances into your life that you need to learn more about who you really are. Look carefully at them because they are showing you something about yourself that you may not yet realize or appreciate. And there you have it ... the three secrets to leading a happier life. Even though most of this may sound familiar don't discount it. Its familiar for a reason ... because its true and you will keep hearing it until you get it. the universe intends for you to master these three universal truths and you can't graduate to ultimate happiness until you do. The Article Author: Fred Freddman enjoys writing articles so others can live happy lives. If you liked this article, you might also be interested in his websites on how to save on health insurance at Health Insurance for Individuals and Health Insurance Comparison. |
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